I have a 1-year old named Elsie. She’s so cute. This age is fun, she’s so interactive, walking, playing peek-a-boo, but one of my favourite things is watching her learn to talk. She’s says quite a few words now and it’s always fun and exciting when she learns a new word, and more importantly, uses it in context.
I remember when Elsie first started talking. I so wanted her first word to be Mumma (and I am still convinced it was) but I remember the day when my husband came home from work, entered the room where Elsie was. Her eyes lit up as she spotted him and out of her mouth, crystal clear came the word “Dadda”. Trevor cheered while I looked at my 6 month old and said “watch your mouth.”
I’m joking of course, I was so elated, I was happy to (at that time) admit first word defeat. You see, I’m at home with Elsie and spend my days with her, she hears what I say. She responds to my cues and so it’s no wonder her first word was “Dadda,” a word which she would hear me say multiple times throughout the day as I refer to her Daddy and the wonderful man that he is.
Also note she didn’t say “Papa” or “Father” in reference to her dad. No, she said “dada”… why? Because that’s the language we speak, that’s the language she hears. My child is attune to the words and the language she hears. This serves as a great reminder for me as a mother to watch my mouth. Be careful what I say, be careful of the language I use.
Leaders, what language are you using? What words are your youth, friends, those you lead hearing you say? Because let me tell you, you better watch your mouth, there are ears listening and the language you use will set the tone for those who look up to you.
Are you speaking positivity about your leaders? Are you uplifting in your language about the church? Are you using the language of encouragement for others? Are you speaking positively about yourself?
The Bible has a lot to say about watching your mouth and the power of your words. Never underestimate the power of even the most off-handed and flippant comments, sometimes words said without thought or care can impact others the most.
Be intentional with your words, be intentional with the target of your words (know your listeners and the appropriate words to use) and above all, watch your mouth. Author: Catherine Petersen
Ephesians 4:29 (NIV) “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that is may benefit those who listen.”
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